Tips For Being In A Relationship With An Aquarius

Aquarians are social butterflies. They are easy and fun to be with. Their wit and intelligence and undying charm are what make others drawn to them. They can talk about anything under the sun. However, unlike their social personality, Aquarius can be choosy and reserved when it comes to love.

It takes so much time before they even realize they are in love. Then when they do realize, they can be clueless about how to deal with their feelings. They love their independence and the thought of being in a serious relationship can seem like a depravation of their freedom.

Aquarians are wonderful friends. They are caring, helpful, and generous. As a lover, however, they are reserved. They can be unemotional and detached. As time passes by, though, and the more they get comfortable with the setup of love and romance; they can be both the best friend and the best lover you would ever have.

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Positive Traits Of Aquarius Lover

Aquarians are very clever. They can apply every strategy and scheme to woo someone but, in the end, can back off in an instant. They love the idea of romance and true love, but only if they think they are fully mature and ready to handle it.

Once they are madly deep in love, they can be the most passionate lover anyone can ever have. They like to give their loved ones the best of themselves. They love making surprises, buying gifts, and having fun trips and memorable dinners with their lovers. Aquarians are natural creative lovers.

Aquarians like having fun and they will never bore you. They like outdoor activities, wonderful talks with friends and love ones, and exciting escapades. They are achievers, visionaries, and hard workers. They do not like relying on someone, and hate people who are dependent.

Aquarians are very forgiving. They don't like to dwell on the past. They always look forward to positive and fun stuff in life. However, they also have good memory. Even if they are forgiving, expect that they will keep a close watch on you.

Negative Traits of Aquarius Lover

Aquarians are unpredictable. Their spontaneity extends to everything, including making abrupt decisions. This attitude, however, can sometimes lead to their destruction, especially with their relationships. When their emotions trigger them, they can decide to break up in an instant. Then, later, they will change their minds.

They are also sensitive. They like to be admired, and if they do not get the right amount of appreciation, they can be hurt about it. Aquarians also take things too seriously. If things do not go their way, this can mean major trouble.

Once they start pursuing their dreams, they expect everyone surrounding them to help them out. They can be unforgiving if they see no support from their lover. They are generous, caring and see to it that everything is well taken care of for their partners. In fact, they can be great providers, both selfless and noble.

Lastly, Aquarians are very stubborn. Once they want to do something, no one can stop them. It would take a lot of reasoning and arguments to be able to change their mind. By their spontaneity, however, you can expect that even they themselves are doubtful of their decision, but would go for it anyway.

How To Attract An Aquarius

It is so easy to attract an Aquarian. All you have to do is to be yourself and thoroughly communicate with them. They like having strong, deep, and interesting conversations. They don't like shallow people or those who cannot keep up with their minds.

When having a relationship with an Aquarian, you will also need to be flexible. They can change their minds from time to time. Be there to go with the flow, accept this side of them, and they will reward you big time. Just be always ready, and simply enjoy the craziness and fun that comes with being with them.

Don'ts With An Aquarius

Aquarians are very private. They would appreciate it if you do not pry into their personal lives. Instead, wait for them to open up and be more comfortable with your relationship. Likewise, Aquarians love their freedom. Never take their independence away from them. Holding them from the things they want to do and achieve in life is relationship suicide. Though they can be complicated and stubborn at times, it would mean a lot to them if they are with someone who can support them all throughout.

Aquarians can have a hard time trusting someone. So, never betray that precious trust. Once they give you their full selves, it means you are for keeps. It is something that can be hard to bring back once it is broken.

Lastly, don't contradict or become impatient with an Aquarian. They may have crazy ideas about everything and can be abrupt in making decisions, but expect that everything will run smoothly with their wit and cleverness.

What Aquarius Needs From Their Relationship

Aquarians need a relationship that is based on trust. It can be hard for them to truly acknowledge their feelings of being in love. This is why they need to trust the person they would be entrusting their heart to. Likewise, they need their partners to understand that they need their freedom at all times. Tying them down would never work out.

They need a relationship that is also built on respect. Aquarians value their self-worth the same as their value of space. Manipulating or controlling them is a big no no. Once they sense this coming, they can leave you in an instant.

Lastly, they need a relationship that is as spontaneous as they are; one that can be there through think and thin, and in fun times and bad times. They need a partner who can feed their minds, follow along with their craziness, and stand still amidst their stubbornness. Aquarians are not hard to love. Remaining in their hearts is the hardest part, but winning them over would reap great rewards.

Jordan Canon
Spiritual Advisor
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